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How to teach your kids to pray
Teach your kids to pray by praying out loud, using simple words, and making prayer part of everyday routines. This practical guide covers bedtime prayers for kids, family prayer time, the five-finger prayer, and age-by-age tips from toddlers to teens. Learn how to answer questions about God, handle reluctance without pressure, and help children build a personal relationship with God.

Mark Szkudlarek
5 hours ago9 min read


When Fatherhood Gets Hard: A Dad’s Guide to the Tough Seasons
The hard parts of fatherhood are almost never the parts people warn you about. Everyone warns you about the sleepless nights. Nobody warns you about the ordinary Tuesday when you snap at your kid over a spilled drink, then sit in the car for ten minutes wondering what is wrong with you. I have had seasons of being a dad where I felt like I was actually good at this. I have had seasons where I was just getting through the day. Both were real. This is the honest map I wish some

Mark Szkudlarek
Aug 257 min read


Bedtime battles: how this dad finally won them
For about two years, bedtime battles were the worst forty-five minutes of my day. My youngest needs water. Then the bathroom. Then one specific toy that had not been touched since last Christmas. I would start out patiently and finish in the hallway doing that quiet, angry whisper every dad knows. What fixed it was not a trick. It was an earlier bedtime, the same boring routine every night, and me deciding to stop negotiating at eight o'clock. I'm not a sleep expert. I'm a da

Mark Szkudlarek
Aug 206 min read


Dad hacks: practical parenting that actually works
Most of what I know about being a dad did not come from a book. It came from getting it wrong on a Tuesday morning with one kid missing a shoe and the other one negotiating over toast. The dad hacks below are the ones that survived that. Not clever ideas I read somewhere and never used. Actual fixes I still reach for. Some of them will look too simple. That is the point. On a hard day you do not need a parenting philosophy. You need something you can do in ten seconds while h

Mark Szkudlarek
Aug 1110 min read


What makes a good father? 10 things that actually matter
One night, I sat in my car outside my own house with the engine off, not quite ready to go inside. The night before, I had shouted at my two kids for not going to bed on time. It didn’t call for shouting, and I wasn’t proud of myself. That’s usually when the question turns up. So what makes a good father, really? Not the version printed on the card. The version you can hold yourself against on an ordinary Tuesday. After years of getting this wrong in front of witnesses, here’

Mark Szkudlarek
Aug 69 min read


How to be a good dad: real talk from an imperfect father
When my kids were little, I had a three-times rule: if I had to repeat myself twice, my voice changed on the third. It got louder, sharper, and sounded a lot like my father’s. There was no specific reason for my reaction. It could be a missed bedtime, late for school, clean up your room. If it is something I wanted done, and it wasn’t being done, then that was a problem. My kid finally would do it, with a lowered head and no smile. That would follow me for the balance of the

Mark Szkudlarek
Aug 410 min read
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