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Teaching Kids Gratitude (Before the Holidays Hit)
Teaching kids gratitude works best when you start weeks before the gifts show up, not in the moment Grandma hands over a sweater and the whole room holds its breath. Model it out loud, ask a few good questions, and give your kids a real way to say thanks. Then repeat it until it’s boring. My two boys are grown now, or close to it. I’ve had years to see which gratitude lessons stuck, and which ones just produced a mumbled “thanks” at somebody’s front door. Growing up, I always

Mark Szkudlarek
42 minutes ago6 min read


Gifts for the dad who wants nothing (or already has everything)
Some links in this post are Amazon affiliate links. If you buy through one, I earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. When your dad says he wants nothing, he usually means he doesn't want more stuff to find a place for. Take it from a guy who says it every year. Here's my list of gifts for the dad who wants nothing. What to get the dad who says he wants nothing Give him something he'll eat, drink, use up, or so

Mark Szkudlarek
Oct 226 min read


Christmas gift ideas for dads (from a dad who unwraps them)
Some links in this post are Amazon affiliate links. If you buy through one, I earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. Every December someone in my family asks what I want, and every December I say, "Nothing, I'm good." I've been lying for years. These Christmas gift ideas for dads come from the guy on the other side of the wrapping paper, so you can skip some of the guessing. My two sons are pretty much grown n

Mark Szkudlarek
Oct 2015 min read


Best camera for family photos (from a dad who got it wrong first)
Some links in this post are Amazon affiliate links. If you buy through one, I earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. I only recommend gear I would tell a friend to buy. The best camera for family photos is the one you will actually carry out the door. That is the whole thing. It took me two years and one expensive mistake to work that out. I am not a photographer. I am a dad with a full week and kids who do not hold still for anything. What I wanted was something th

Mark Szkudlarek
Sep 259 min read


How to teach your kids to pray
Teach your kids to pray by praying out loud, using simple words, and making prayer part of everyday routines. This practical guide covers bedtime prayers for kids, family prayer time, the five-finger prayer, and age-by-age tips from toddlers to teens. Learn how to answer questions about God, handle reluctance without pressure, and help children build a personal relationship with God.

Mark Szkudlarek
Sep 109 min read


When Fatherhood Gets Hard: A Dad’s Guide to the Tough Seasons
The hard parts of fatherhood are almost never the parts people warn you about. Everyone warns you about the sleepless nights. Nobody warns you about the ordinary Tuesday when you snap at your kid over a spilled drink, then sit in the car for ten minutes wondering what is wrong with you. I have had seasons of being a dad where I felt like I was actually good at this. I have had seasons where I was just getting through the day. Both were real. This is the honest map I wish some

Mark Szkudlarek
Aug 257 min read
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