A strong father-son relationship isn't built in one big moment. It's built in a hundred small ones, most of which you'll forget by dinner. I didn't really understand that when my first son was born. I thought there would be some obvious handoff, and one day he'd look at me a certain way and I'd know we were solid. It was the first few days he was home, and we just sat on the couch watching the Yankees vs Boston baseball game. He slept perfectly on my chest. I think we both to
