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How to bond with your kids when you're a busy dad
I used to think bonding with my kids meant the big stuff. A trip. The whole Saturday cleared. A perfect afternoon I'd planned for a week. The problem is I'm a busy dad, and those wide-open days almost never show up. Here's what I wish someone had told me sooner. You don't bond with your kids in big blocks of time. You bond in small ones. The two minutes at the door. The drive to practice. The dumb joke at dinner you both still quote. So, if you're reading this between meeting

Mark Szkudlarek
Jul 107 min read
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The best dads love Family Game Night!
In our house, a different person picks the activity every week, and everyone has to join in, even mom and dad. Here's how family game night became our weekly reset.

Mark Szkudlarek
Feb 271 min read
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The best dads wear ashes, all day.
Years ago I wiped my ashes off before an interview so I wouldn't send the wrong message. The recruiter showed up wearing his. I've never made that mistake again.

Mark Szkudlarek
Feb 181 min read
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The best dads know how to enjoy snow days in Texas.
Two inches of snow shut down the whole city, which to a Midwest kid is a light dusting. Here's how our family made the most of two surprise days off school.

Mark Szkudlarek
Jan 261 min read
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The best dads are GRATEFUL!
2020 was a hard year for a lot of reasons. Here's what it taught me about slowing down, listening instead of fixing, and actually showing up for my family.

Mark Szkudlarek
Jan 1, 20212 min read
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The best dads don't miss the DADDY DAUGHTER DANCE!
I have two boys, so I'll never know the father-daughter bond firsthand. But my brother-in-law's photo from his daughter's Daddy Daughter Dance says everything I need to know about it.

Mark Szkudlarek
Feb 4, 20201 min read
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