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Dad burnout: signs you're running on empty and how to climb out
There's a specific kind of tired that sleep doesn't touch. You wake up already empty. You snap at your kid over a spilled cup, feel awful about it, then do it again an hour later. You come home from work, navigating dinner and the evening as a zombie, just trying to make it to bed early. That's dad burnout. And if you're feeling it, here's the first thing to know. It isn't a weakness, and it isn't bad parenting. It's what happens when the demands of work, kids, and everythin

Mark Szkudlarek
Jul 137 min read


How to bond with your kids when you're a busy dad
I used to think bonding with my kids meant the big stuff. A trip. The whole Saturday cleared. A perfect afternoon I'd planned for a week. The problem is I'm a busy dad, and those wide-open days almost never show up. Here's what I wish someone had told me sooner. You don't bond with your kids in big blocks of time. You bond in small ones. The two minutes at the door. The drive to practice. The dumb joke at dinner you both still quote. So, if you're reading this between meeting

Mark Szkudlarek
Jul 107 min read


50 Father’s Day Questions About Dad That Become Real Memories
Sometimes the best Father’s Day gift is not a thing at all. It is a question that gets Dad talking. The right questions about dad for Father’s Day can turn a normal Sunday into the kind of conversation your family repeats for years. If you only ask five this year, ask these: What is your favorite memory of us as a family? What did you learn from your own dad? What is one thing you wish we did more of together? What is one thing you hope we remember about you? What makes you f

Mark Szkudlarek
Jun 156 min read


Father’s Day 2026: 25 Meaningful Things to Do With Dad
Father’s Day 2026 lands on Sunday, June 21. If you are hunting for father's day things to do with dad and drawing a blank, here is the short version: the day works best when it stays simple. Spend time with him, put in a little effort, and give him something he will remember. That beats another tie he will never wear. My dad has been gone for over a decade, but I remember my father-in-law and my brothers-in-law. The last few years I go to a Catholic Conference early in the ye

Mark Szkudlarek
Jun 157 min read


The best dads know when to Let Them.
Before visiting relatives for the holidays, a book titled The Let Them Theory was recommended to me. I hadn't realized that Mel Robbins is making waves on the Internet with this concept. As noted by the Wall Street Journal and TIME magazine, she's a NY Times best-selling author and a podcaster with billions of views, who inspires listeners worldwide to believe in themselves. It's definitely a must-read or listen. The book, co-authored by her daughter Sawyer Robbins, is the be

Mark Szkudlarek
May 52 min read


The best dads prioritize family.
Rory McIlroy dropped his daughter at school, flew to Augusta, won a round, and still made it home for dinner. It got me thinking about how the rest of us can actually put family first.

Mark Szkudlarek
Apr 131 min read
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