I started looking last December. It is September now. That puts me about nine months in. A recruiter told me at the start it would take six to nine months. I remember thinking that number sounded insane. It was not insane. It was accurate. I am writing this the way I would say it to a friend across a lunch table, because I have had that lunch a few times now, usually with another dad who just got the news that his role was eliminated and is trying to figure out where the floo